Relationship is an interesting thing most especially among humans. The oil that sustains it is communication. Any relationship devoid of this very important lubricant is on its way to the terminus where everything connected with the affairs is bound to wind up.

A young woman bared her mind one day on a common statement among husband's to their wives. When a husband comes from his place of work and he gives his wife an amount he was able to afford for family upkeep. If the man adds, "That is what I have." Beloved reader, what does that simple statement mean to you?

After a while, if this man buys a recharge card, a bottle of soft drinks and possibly a pack of biscuits, what does this mean? Is it unfaithfulness to the wife?

This was the lamentation of a woman in February or March 2022. She said, "How can one trust such a husband?" My question to this sister was what I have asked here, "What does this mean?".

According to her, so long he said that is what he had, it means he had given ALL that he had; if it were so, where did he get money to buy other items?

Beloved reader, what is your own interpretations of such statement? What meaning can you give it? To you, what does it connote or denote?

The sister who raised this topic was so bitter against her husband for saying and acting in such a way. She concluded that there is no reason for her to trust him, no matter what happens. Is that what should follow? Is that the proper line of action to take?

My questions to her were many but let me mention a few here: do you love your husband? Do you love him only because of money? Do you want your husband to deliver every money on him to you so that whatever he wants to buy should be on credit or he should come to you to take from what he had given you? Or what do you expect him to do after he had given you ALL that he had on you and he needs certain items for his use?

EXPLANATION.
Instead of having a bitter mind against the husband and drawing an erroneous conclusion that could mar the marriage, why can't she asked her husband, in love, what he actually meant by "That is what I have." I think a reasonable husband will offer every necessary Explanation to cast out any iota of doubt in his wife's heart.

An explanation of a matter wrongly interpreted will put every record straight; the relationship will not only continue but it will also be more smooth than before.

That, in a nutshell, is communication on duty.

How much of your spouse's "codes" do you understand? What steps do you take on those ones you cannot decode? Do you ask man who can explain it better? Try as much as possible to seek Explanations of what you do not understand before you act on your wrong interpretations of words and events in your relationship.
Stay blessed and prepared for the imminent coming of the Lord Jesus Christ.

SALVATION MESSAGE.
In case you just "stumble"on this piece and you do not know your Creator or you have been so far deceived with one religion or the other, I am happy to inform you that TODAY is the appointed time to be reconciled with your Maker.
*Accept the truth that you are a sinner and cannot help yourself.
*Confess all your sins to the Lord Jesus Christ and ask Him to forgive you, He will surely do.
*Ask the Lord to occupy and control your heart forever.
*Request Him to fill you with His Holy Spirit to with you forever.
* Obtain a copy of the Holy Bible for daily reading and application for great benefits.
*Join an assembly of God's children where the Scripture is held in high esteem for fellowship and growth.
May the Lord help you to walk with Him for the rest of your life in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

The Author is the set man of CTFM(WORLD OUTREACH)and Presiding Pastor of Christ Restland Gospel Church.He is a Poet and author of many books. Visit his blogsites www.4thlink.wordpress.com and www.peacelink.wordpress.com for more quality contents.