Relationship Seasonings 1.
by Olawale Ogunsola Every meal has some ingredients that make it palatable and edible. These ingredients individually contribute their quota to the delicious taste of the meal. Each of the seasonings appeals to different senses of mankind. The one that makes the nose rejoice is different from that which makes the tongue celebrate. So it is with a relationship. It requires different seasonings. These are what we are discussing in these series one after the other. In every dealing, one person may do the wrong thing to the other. This may be intentionally or inadvertently. It is not possible to have a relationship that is free of one form of discord or the other. Either it is ironed out amicably or one bears the burden consistently. Do you know that a common word, Repentance, is a very good seasoning for every relationship? That is the truth. Application of this seasoning will bring outstanding results into your dealings with people. Doing away with your hitching quality will endear you into the heart of people around you more. Those who hate you because of such unfriendly conduct you are proud of will become your lovers who will be closer to you or distant from you. Any proof of this? "Yes!" is the answer. There are lessons everywhere for a serious learner. During Ed el Kabir, an annual Islamic festival, of 2023 which was celebrated on Wednesday, twenty-eight June, twenty twenty-three. A grandma wanted to visit and rejoice with her relatives who were Muslims. She discussed it with her husband who did not hesitate to agree with her on the proposed journey. The husband asked her, "When will you return?" The question caught the wife napping. She said, "This is the first time you have asked me that question. Why did you ask me?" Grandma was happy and she promised to return on the seventh day. In the past, she used to spend weeks any time she embarked on such a journey because the man never ask about her time to return. She felt not needed. She thought that her absence meant nothing to the man. For that reason, she could spend her time where she was "needed" and "appreciated". This time around, with the words of the husband, she felt that the man needed and appreciate her; so, she would not want to create a vacuum in his life by not being available. The Author is the set man of CTFM(WORLD OUTREACH)and Presiding Pastor of Christ Restland Gospel Church.He is a Poet and author of many books. Visit his blogsites www.4thlink.wordpress.com and www.peacelink.wordpress.com for more quality contents. Article Source: http://www.faithwriters.com |
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